The One Wand You Want

A clarifying crystal for a new age of lesbians and heterosexual women alike!

Article published in ON OUR BACKS Magazine.


By now many of you have heard of the G-spot and female ejaculation. You may have even found it. For those of you who are still on the quest or those who just want more, more, more, there is a new toy on the market that has the penetration junkies all abuzz. The Crystal Wand is 10 inches of clear acrylic, hand molded into a shallow S shape. I first heard about it from Raven and Kate. They teach a seminar which is a hands-on exploration of the female sexuaI anatomy, and with a particular interest in female ejaculation. A class like theirs is obviously not for the faint of heart, and I have yet to get up the gumption to go, but the two teachers came into Toys in Babeland to get lube, gloves, and other supplies for the class and to tell us about the Crystal Wand.

The Crystal Wand is one of those designed-by-a-woman-for-a-woman types of toys. It comes with a brochure explaining a bit about female pleasure and power. The basic idea is this: the G-spot is hard to reach with one's own hands because it is tucked a couple of inches up the front wall of the vagina. When you do find it with your finger it's difficult to bang on very hard because of the angle. The Crystal Wand makes it easy to reach your own G-spot and, of course, works with a partner too. Chris told me her story: "I had a great experience with a lover who truly seemed to have, magic fingers,' but I couldn't repeat the feeling by myself or with my current lover. When I got the Crystal Wand I tried it on myself, and it worked! Then I showed my lover how to use it on me. We're both happier now that I'm not pining for ol' Miss Magic".

The key to the Crystal Wand's success is its shape. Kate told me that in her experience, no other dildo or vibrator had worked as well. "The only way I had ever ejaculated was from fisting. I tried some other devices, but they were all hard to use; either my wrist got tweaked or I had to hold a weird position. When I put the Crystal Wand in, it hits my G-spot exactly, and I can easily give myself the sensations I want." Donna concurs, "I like my penetration to be forceful. The S of the wand curves up and makes a little handle that is easy t o push on hard without getting tired." Some women find that the stabbing motions of a straight dildo just don't do the trick. For Carla, the best penetration "feels like pulling, not pushing. The S of the wand grabs in the right place, and then I sort of pull it down towards my knees and next thing you know I'm squirting buckets."

Randi first saw the Crystal Wand in a group-sex setting. "I knew right away that I had to have it. It took me a while to track it down, but now I love it so much that I gave each of my two best friends one as a gift. They cost $50, which is well worth it." Nicol told me, "I'm blessed with long fingers and can reach my G-spot fine on my own, but I like the wand for variety. Plus it's pretty. I use it for a paper weight at work, and no one is the wiser."

Rachel Venning is the cofounder of Toys in Babeland, a Seattle and Web-based sex toy store.


Crystal Wand™

During one love making session, something deeply emotional started to be triggered in me. My lover was spent. Though by having the wand available, we were able to continue the deep physical, emotional, and spiritual opening which became a great healing for me.

A totally new feeling awakened in us both as my lover was inside my vagina. We used the wand movement in my anus, this stimulated him because of its curved shape and it stimulated my G spot, creating an intense sensual pleasure. For each of us the experience ws rushing pleasure throughout
our whole body with tingling flowing up and down the spine that continued for quite awhile and was exhilerating.

Other variations are: his using the wand inside while being inside of me, gave him the androgynous feeling of simultaneously opening to receive and trusting to give his male energy to me. This is a very brief description of a very powerful greater experience than these words can do justice to.

T.L. in San Diego.
Sex Therapist

It’s the best $39 I've ever spent! Thank you, thank you! I'm particularly grateful to you Cynthia for what you teach about use of this wand to open up and reconnect deeply with my true self and with a vulnerable, deep place in me that I hardly know, but I love the feeling of it in me!!! And you've taught me how to enjoy this newly awakened part of myself in connection with my femininity, sensuality and sexual energy in a really positive, healthy, fun way - Now I'm really knowing what loving myself really means, whether I'm alone or with someone else!

Thank you again.

Linda C.
Atlanta, GA


As the owner of a personal growth center as well as two alternative sex shops in the Los Angeles area, I have pretty much seen it all. I have tried and experimented with just about every new sex toy that comes on the market, and the Crystal Wand™ is on the top of my favorites list!

After a few days of using my beautiful Crystal Wand™, suddenly, at fifty years old, I started enjoying vaginal orgasms! From then on I was able to create vaginal orgasms with my lover as well. What a joy! Another delight has been my lover's pleasure in watching my orgasm; actually seeing my vaginal contractions through the clear Lucite of the wand! The wand has become my favorite "toy". I love to start my day with a smile so... I can enjoy a quick five minute orgasm with my wand on my G-crest and my vibrator on my *censored*oris. It is guaranteed to begin my day with a deep appreciation of how responsive my body is!

Judy L.
Business Owner

I have used the wand for pelvic release through the anus on myself and my husband. There are knots of tension in that area that hold emotions and tensions that effect the whole body and nervous system. I have begun to experience great pleasure in that area instead of tension! When using the wand I've experienced release of that tension and that has profoundly effected the way I am in my life! I am less up tight, less controlling and much more - I continue to use it and get more and more out of the experience.

The Crystal Wand™ was a curiosity that I purchased to experience and had no specific expectations about it. As a psychologist who works with sexual dysfunction, I was very intrigued with the possibilities of its usage. What happened with it was truly profound for my own personal evolution. It served as a catalyst for exploring the depths of my sexuality through emotional release and imagery that left me feeling that I had touched upon areas of my being that I would never have been able to clear without that unique experience.

Love and light,


Using the Crystal Wand™, I experienced a type of orgasm I have never felt before with my hand, my partner's hand or with anything else I've used. And I've tried lots of things, believe me! I love the Wand. Thank you for creating it, Cynthia. It's changed my life!

Patti M.
Marin Court, California
Writer, Book on Relationships

As a result of a recommendation from my Masseur Rodney Apana, I purchased a Wand from Nectar Products™. I am a runner who has been recovering from a broken left foot injury that occurred over a year ago. During the last year after the bone had completely healed, I had found my right leg was suffering from several problems, e.g. shin splints, extremely tight hamstrings etc. to the extent that I was unable to walk or run without experiencing severe pain. I found it impossible to achieve a normal workout.

Since using the Wand continuously on a regular basis twice a day I have noticed a vast improvement in my blood flow to all areas of my body from neck pain to shin splints. I now can accomplish workouts at the level I was at before my broken bone injury without a second thought. My endurance is vastly improved as well from the free flow of circulation. I can now obtain a strenuous workout as long as I wish. Moreover, I find that I need more time every morning for my workout: not bad for someone who was not able to run 3 weeks ago.

When I first purchased the Wand I used it once daily in the morning time, then changed the routine to morning and evening and found the very satisfactory results described above....I purchased 3 weeks ago a Wand from Nectar Products™ and I just had to write this letter of appreciation to you to express my thanks on such a marvelous product you have created for women. I use it daily and certainly know I have achieved wonderful results from it...
Ms. T Bollman
Owner of Professional Soccer Team

(Note from Shiatsu masseuse: There is an acid buildup in stuck areas of tension, so I suggest to my clients that they press the area with the wand holding it until slight discomfort subsides, This means the blood if flowing back into blocked area. Then proceed in tiny increments, pressing the next area as if pressing around the clock. Press all areas of the vagina walls. Take your time, breathe deeply focusing on the area you are working on.)



About Cynthia
Cynthia Lamborne is a leader in the field of sacred sexuality and Tantra. Her background and training includes: comprehensive study with several Tantric Masters; extensive travel in Egypt, India and Nepal; 30 years of training and experience with thousands of men and women as an intimacy coach and workshop facilitator; and teaching Transcendental Meditation for 10 years.



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