The One Wand You
crystal for a new age of lesbians and heterosexual women
published in ON OUR BACKS Magazine.
many of you have heard of the G-spot and female ejaculation.
You may have even found it. For those of you who are still
on the quest or those who just want more, more, more, there
is a new toy on the market that has the penetration junkies
all abuzz. The Crystal Wand™
is 10 inches of clear acrylic, hand molded into a shallow
S shape. I first heard about it from Raven and Kate. They
teach a seminar which is a hands-on exploration of the female
sexuaI anatomy, and with a particular interest in female
ejaculation. A class like theirs is obviously not for the
faint of heart, and I have yet to get up the gumption to
go, but the two teachers came into Toys in Babeland to get
lube, gloves, and other supplies for the class and to tell
us about the Crystal Wand™.
one of those designed-by-a-woman-for-a-woman types of toys.
It comes with a brochure explaining a bit about female pleasure
and power. The basic idea is this: the G-spot is hard to
reach with one's own hands because it is tucked a couple
of inches up the front wall of the vagina. When you do find
it with your finger it's difficult to bang on very hard
because of the angle. The Crystal Wand™
makes it easy to reach your own G-spot and, of course, works
with a partner too. Chris told me her story: "I had
a great experience with a lover who truly seemed to have,
magic fingers,' but I couldn't repeat the feeling by myself
or with my current lover. When I got the Crystal Wand™
I tried it on myself, and it worked! Then I showed my lover
how to use it on me. We're both happier now that I'm not
pining for ol' Miss Magic".
The key to the
success is its shape. Kate told me that in her experience,
no other dildo or vibrator had worked as well. "The
only way I had ever ejaculated was from fisting. I tried
some other devices, but they were all hard to use; either
my wrist got tweaked or I had to hold a weird position.
When I put the Crystal Wand™
in, it hits my G-spot exactly, and I can easily give myself
the sensations I want." Donna concurs, "I like
my penetration to be forceful. The S of the wand curves
up and makes a little handle that is easy t o push on hard
without getting tired." Some women find that the stabbing
motions of a straight dildo just don't do the trick. For
Carla, the best penetration "feels like pulling, not
pushing. The S of the wand grabs in the right place, and
then I sort of pull it down towards my knees and next thing
you know I'm squirting buckets."
Randi first saw the
in a group-sex setting. "I knew right away that I had
to have it. It took me a while to track it down, but now
I love it so much that I gave each of my two best friends
one as a gift. They cost $50, which is well worth it."
Nicol told me, "I'm blessed with long fingers and can
reach my G-spot fine on my own, but I like the wand for
variety. Plus it's pretty. I use it for a paper weight at
work, and no one is the wiser."
Rachel Venning is
the cofounder of Toys in Babeland, a Seattle and Web-based
sex toy store.
During one love making session, something
deeply emotional started to be triggered in me. My lover
was spent. Though by having the wand available, we were
able to continue the deep physical, emotional, and spiritual
opening which became a great healing for me.
A totally new feeling awakened in us both as
my lover was inside my vagina. We used the wand movement in
my anus, this stimulated him because of its curved shape and
it stimulated my G spot, creating an intense sensual pleasure.
For each of us the experience ws rushing pleasure throughout
our whole body with tingling flowing up and down the spine that
continued for quite awhile and was exhilerating.
Other variations are: his using the wand
inside while being inside of me, gave him the androgynous
feeling of simultaneously opening to receive and trusting
to give his male energy to me. This is a very brief description
of a very powerful greater experience than these words can
do justice to.
T.L. in San Diego.
It’s the best $39 I've ever spent! Thank
you, thank you! I'm particularly grateful to you Cynthia for
what you teach about use of this wand to open up and reconnect
deeply with my true self and with a vulnerable, deep place in
me that I hardly know, but I love the feeling of it in me!!!
And you've taught me how to enjoy this newly awakened part of
myself in connection with my femininity, sensuality and sexual
energy in a really positive, healthy, fun way - Now I'm really
knowing what loving myself really means, whether I'm alone or
with someone else!
Thank you again.
As the owner of a personal growth center
as well as two alternative sex shops in the Los Angeles
area, I have pretty much seen it all. I have tried and experimented
with just about every new sex toy that comes on the market,
and the Crystal Wand™ is on the top of my favorites
After a few days of using my beautiful Crystal
Wand™, suddenly, at fifty years old, I started enjoying
vaginal orgasms! From then on I was able to create vaginal
orgasms with my lover as well. What a joy! Another delight
has been my lover's pleasure in watching my orgasm; actually
seeing my vaginal contractions through the clear Lucite
of the wand! The wand has become my favorite "toy".
I love to start my day with a smile so... I can enjoy a
quick five minute orgasm with my wand on my G-crest and
my vibrator on my *censored*oris. It is guaranteed to begin
my day with a deep appreciation of how responsive my body
I have used the wand for pelvic release through the anus
on myself and my husband. There are knots of tension in
that area that hold emotions and tensions that effect the
whole body and nervous system. I have begun to experience
great pleasure in that area instead of tension! When using
the wand I've experienced release of that tension and that
has profoundly effected the way I am in my life! I am less
up tight, less controlling and much more - I continue to
use it and get more and more out of the experience.
The Crystal Wand™ was a curiosity
that I purchased to experience and had no specific expectations
about it. As a psychologist who works with sexual dysfunction,
I was very intrigued with the possibilities of its usage.
What happened with it was truly profound for my own personal
evolution. It served as a catalyst for exploring the depths
of my sexuality through emotional release and imagery that
left me feeling that I had touched upon areas of my being
that I would never have been able to clear without that
Love and light,
Using the Crystal Wand™, I experienced a type of orgasm
I have never felt before with my hand, my partner's hand
or with anything else I've used. And I've tried lots of
things, believe me! I love the Wand. Thank you for creating
it, Cynthia. It's changed my life!
Marin Court, California
Writer, Book on Relationships
As a result of a recommendation from my
Masseur Rodney Apana, I purchased a Wand from Nectar Products™.
I am a runner who has been recovering from a broken left
foot injury that occurred over a year ago. During the last
year after the bone had completely healed, I had found my
right leg was suffering from several problems, e.g. shin
splints, extremely tight hamstrings etc. to the extent that
I was unable to walk or run without experiencing severe
pain. I found it impossible to achieve a normal workout.
Since using the Wand continuously on a regular basis twice
a day I have noticed a vast improvement in my blood flow
to all areas of my body from neck pain to shin splints.
I now can accomplish workouts at the level I was at before
my broken bone injury without a second thought. My endurance
is vastly improved as well from the free flow of circulation.
I can now obtain a strenuous workout as long as I wish.
Moreover, I find that I need more time every morning for
my workout: not bad for someone who was not able to run
3 weeks ago.
When I first purchased the Wand I used it
once daily in the morning time, then changed the routine
to morning and evening and found the very satisfactory results
described above....I purchased 3 weeks ago a Wand from Nectar
Products™ and I just had to write this letter of appreciation
to you to express my thanks on such a marvelous product
you have created for women. I use it daily and certainly
know I have achieved wonderful results from it...
Ms. T Bollman
Owner of Professional Soccer Team
(Note from Shiatsu masseuse: There is an
acid buildup in stuck areas of tension, so I suggest to
my clients that they press the area with the wand holding
it until slight discomfort subsides, This means the blood
if flowing back into blocked area. Then proceed in tiny
increments, pressing the next area as if pressing around
the clock. Press all areas of the vagina walls. Take your
time, breathe deeply focusing on the area you are working